TOMS RIVER – Phil Citta never sought the spotlight, but every year, the community he built around The Office Restaurant & Lounge ensures his memory shines brightly.
For the past 20 years, The Office has hosted Phil Citta’s Birthday Celebration, a heartfelt fundraiser in his honor. A portion of all net sales from the day, along with donations and gift basket auctions, go to the J. Phillip Citta Regional Cancer Center at Community Medical Center. The tally after the first 19 years? An astounding $360,000 was raised, with the event typically bringing in around $20,000 annually.
The Office has long been known as a cornerstone in the Toms River community and far more than just a place to grab a drink or bite to eat. Phil’s father, Joseph Citta, opened the establishment doors in 1958 as the Toms River Hub.
When Phil took over the reins in 1975, he changed its name to its current one. Phil had a knack for making everyone feel at home with his warm hospitality and infectious smile. He also believed in sharing his good fortune with others through charitable means.
Phil Citta passed away from pancreatic cancer in 2004 at just 60 years old. However, his family ensured his legacy lived on – not just in the restaurant, but in the community. They made a $1 million donation to establish the cancer center that bears his name, expanding access to lifesaving treatment for local residents.
General Manager Nick Pagano said although he’s not blood-related to the Cittas, he was made to feel a part of their family. He began working for the restaurant at 16 as a busboy and has been there for 33 years. Pagano came up with the idea of the hospital fundraiser the year after his mentor’s death.
“I was very close to Phil as not only a boss but as a friend,” said Pagano. “And very close to his sister, Rosanne, who passed away a couple of years ago.”
His voice was filled with warmth as Pagano shared how much Phil would have loved the annual celebration. “He was all about community, about giving back,” Pagano submitted. “He wouldn’t want the focus to be on him, but he’d be so proud of what the day represents.”
Balloons added to the party atmosphere of the memorial fundraiser held recently. Patrons came early to buy tickets, hoping to win from a huge assortment of raffle prizes. Community members and local businesses donated gifts, and all proceeds were added to the fundraising total.
Laughter filled the air, and the large barroom became a place of shared reminiscence between old and new friends. The aroma of assorted dishes mingled with the sound of clinking glasses and friendly conversation. The energy was high, and the generosity flowed freely.
“Not only were our reservations full,” Pagano said. “But a lot of old employees made sure to come in and remember Phil.”
The Office doesn’t stop at just one fundraiser. They also participate in Red, White & Brew, an annual tasting event featuring Ocean County’s best restaurants, plus beer and wine vendors. Held at the Toms River Country Club, the event has raised $1.6 million for the cancer center over the past two decades. This year’s tasting is set for June 4, from 5:30 to 8:30 p.m., with tickets priced at $75.
Through it all, Phil Citta’s legacy continues as a cause for celebration. Family-owned and enjoying its 50th year, The Office is a place where people gather not just for a great meal but for great company. And, the J. Philip Citta Regional Cancer Center is a living embodiment of Phil’s generosity, which provides hope and healing close to home.
